Best-selling author first published at age 70, dies at 90


Published: Wednesday, January 1, 2003 at 6:01 a.m.
Last Modified: Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 9:17 p.m.
LONDON - Writer Mary Wesley, who published her first novel when she was 70 and went on to produce a string of slightly racy best sellers, has died at age 90.
Wesley, whose examinations of middle-class values have been described as "like Jane Austen with sex," died Monday at her home in Totnes, local rector Nicholas Martin said Tuesday.
Wesley had been suffering from gout and a blood disorder in recent months, The Times, The Independent and other newspapers reported Tuesday.
The author of "The Camomile Lawn" and "A Sensible Life" was most famous for her late start in a literary career and for the enthusiastic sexuality of her characters.
"I've been told that I give the blue-rinse brigade quite a shock," she once said. "People are startled by my books because they think, 'How can an old woman write about sex?' As though one could forget it."
"The idea that people go on being sexy all their lives is little explored in fiction," Wesley told interviewer Angela Lambert in 1994.
A former baroness, and a cousin of the Duke of Wellington, Wesley drew many of her characters from the upper reaches of British society and frequently set her tales during World War II.
"The Camomile Lawn" - with plenty of sex and plenty of wartime frivolity - was made into a television series.
"People did enjoy the war," she told The Independent in 1994. "People of my generation had a very good time. It was an atmosphere of terror and exhilaration and parties, parties, parties. People did things they wouldn't have done otherwise and were frivolous as well as desperate."
She later said she didn't like the nude scenes in the film because there was no central heating during the war and people didn't take their clothes off until they were in bed.
The barely educated daughter of army Col. Harold Mynors Farmar - "My parents didn't think it necessary to educate girls. . . . I was totally ignorant" - Wesley was married to Baron Swinfen by the time the war broke out.
She worked in intelligence, had two sons, and saw her marriage break up before the war was over. She had also educated herself and met journalist Eric Siepmann, the man she was to love from their meeting in 1944 until his death in 1970.
They were not able to marry until 1952 because his wife couldn't be located to divorce. So the unconventional baroness changed her name legally to Siepmann and moved in with him.
Her family was outraged and unpleasant, Wesley said, and she had little to do with them for the rest of her life.
When her husband died in 1970 of Parkinson's disease, their son, Bill, was 16 and still at school.
"I had no money except for my widow's pension and 50 pounds a month from some family trust, and no qualifications for work," she told The Independent. "I was very, very broke for a long time. I was desperate, counting the pennies and thinking, can I afford a stamp or must this letter wait till Monday?"
She had written a couple of children's books before her husband's death, but it was not until 1983, when she was 70, that she sold her first novel, "Jumping the Queue," a bleakly humorous story of incest, suicide and middle-aged sex.
Thereafter she wrote nearly a book a year. They began moving straight onto the best-seller list as readers grew to expect spare, well-crafted prose and a strange mixture of racy gentility, humor and unconven- tionality.

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